Out with the OLD, in with the NEW in 2017

Every year, I hear or see the phrase “New year new me “. I’m one of the people saying it. I won’t post it on social media, but I’ll say it in my head so it’s sort of the same thing. I’m also the same person that says “Oh, I’ll start again on February 1st, January was just a trial”. I’ll keep doing this until its January with a new number behind it indicating it’s a new year. This year I decided to try something different.

Before 2017, I would try to change things about myself or try new things to make me a better person. Not realizing, I was already that person. I had to recognize what I was and learn to accept it or change somethings about me. I wrote down all the things that made me happy, sad & mad with my life, currently. Once I was done, I noticed a pattern in all things I had written down. The pattern was that of all the things I written down I could change. So that’s what, I’m doing right now. Check back in a year from now and see how I’m doing. Accepting those things made me understand who I am and what I want to do. It took me a minute to realize and see it for what it is. Here’s to a better you or seeing the better in you.


For the year 2017, I’ve decided to make it a year of new excursions. Going places I’ve never been, trying things I’ve never done and living life without limitations. You can say I’m doing what Shonda Rhimes did in her book, Year of Yes. I’m telling fear to take a step back. In the past I’ve let fear, apprehension, and fear of being solo (FOBS) hold me back from doing a lot of things. Not this year… Not any more… I’ve curated a list of things that I will accomplish this year. It’s a very small list, but good enough for me. I want to look back on 2017 and see how much I’ve done and grown as a person.

What are some of your goals of 2017, comment below and tell me what’s a must on your new year’s resolution/goals list. I wanna’ know. Stay up to date with me by subscribing to my newsletter and also follow me on all social media outlets at (KompletelyKai) and let’s chat. Until next time, BE BLESSED, BE BEAUTIFUL, ABOVE ALL THINGS BE YOU!!!!